A 29‑year‑old data analyst from Pune turned his marriage search into a project, logging conversations with 55 potential partners in an Excel spreadsheet. His systematic approach went viral and ultimately led him to his future wife.
Key Takeaways
- Vikas conversed with 55 women and recorded every detail in Excel.
- He categorized each interaction as ‘Open’, ‘Closed’, ‘On Hold’, or ‘Talking’.
- His method helped him identify the most compatible partner, culminating in a marriage.
Vikas' Journey
Based in Pune, 29‑year‑old Vikas, a professional data analyst, chose a data‑driven route over traditional matchmaking. From November 2025 to July 2026 he engaged with roughly 55 prospective brides, documenting every conversation in a meticulously organized Excel sheet.
What the Spreadsheet Contained
The sheet featured categories such as ‘Open’, ‘Closed’, ‘On Hold’, and ‘Talking’. Each row captured the candidate’s name, conversation status, mutual expectations, cultural compatibility, and personal reflections, turning a chaotic process into a clear project.
Historical Background
Arranged marriages have long relied on family networks and matrimonial websites. Since 2020, online platforms have surged, yet Vikas’ spreadsheet method remains a rare, systematic approach that blends personal data analysis with traditional values.
Why This Matters
BozokMedia analysis shows that systematic data management can transform personal decisions, making the marriage search more transparent and less stressful for modern Indians.
“Applying data‑driven techniques to personal relationships brings clarity, as Vikas has demonstrated,” says Dr. Sanjay Mehta, Relationship Coach.
Frequently Asked Questions
Q1: Is this method suitable for everyone?
A: It depends on personal preference, but data tracking often provides valuable clarity.
Q2: What is Vikas’s bride’s profession?
A: She is a professor based in Gurgaon, sharing a common Haryanvi background with Vikas.
